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Relationship Problem Advice – Don’t Fear Loneliness!
Wednesday, January 13th, 2010
Learn to harness the power of Law of Attraction and manifestation for relationship problem advice and a healthy connection.
The Universal laws of attraction impact every part of your existence, including your love life. But when problems arise, you have to ask yourself: Am I maintaining a positive thought vibration that allows Law of Attraction and manifestation? You should be co-creating a beautiful life with the person you love rather than simply hoping to reach a certain number of years together.
Only YOU are responsible for your Happiness
The correct way to use the Law of Attraction in your relationship is to identify the area of your relationship that you want to change, that’s not bringing you joy, that could be just a bit better. Recognize that your happiness in this area has nothing to do with your partner.
Happiness attracts Happiness
If you are thinking “I will be so happy when I find the love of my life,” you’re missing a piece of the puzzle. Happiness attracts happiness, so do whatever it takes to feel good now. It is never the job of another person to make you happy. In fact, the relationship will suffer immensely if both parties are not already happy with themselves.
Change your Mindset
Changing the other person is an uphill battle, but changing your thoughts is completely doable. You’ll find that a healthy relationship comes easier when you approach it with the mindset of what you can bring to it rather than what you can get from it. Unless you’ve reached full enlightenment and spiritual mastery, you are a work in progress. Therefore, you have plenty of room to become the best person that you can be for the relationship. Let this always be your focus.
Just Do It: Positive Affirmations and Visualization
Imagine how your relationship would be if it were perfect. How would you feel? Where would you be? What would you be doing? Write these feelings down in a journal or notebook.
Now go back to your journal every day and read your description of this perfect feeling. Focus on it, visualize it, and know that it is already done. Focus on this ideal until you feel it in your core – and keep it there. A sample affirmation is something like “I am filled with joy, love, and laughter. Try repeating that 10 times and not feeling at least a little better. Create your own that is specific to the thing you are trying to change in your life.
It is possible to re-ignite the passion and romance of any relationship no matter how many years you have been together. It all starts with a thought. The Law of Attraction is a great ally for relationship problems.
